My Little Man
It’s 5:00a.m. and I have been awake about two hours. I’ve got a crick in my neck and need to see my chiropractor. But i thought since I couldn’t sleep, I’d be productive: i.e. putting away laundry, researching for my upcoming trip to Paris (yay!!), and working on today’s blog post since today is a very busy day. Doesn’t it always work this way: night before super-busy day I don’t sleep well. Let’s just say I’ll be partaking in some 5 Hour Energy come mid-afternoon!
I haven’t talked much about Mason since blowing off the dust on this blog! But he’s the same (very) active 4 year old as before! He’s pretty cute…when he’s not challenging us. His interests right now: keys, cars, key fobs, goldfish crackers, gum, keys, our dogs, summer camp, keys, exploring different sodas, California…did I mention the keys? One might say it’s a slight obsession. That “one” might be every”one” who knows him. I chalk it up to his dad working in the car industry. But it all started with a ride in his Uncle Brett’s mercedes (Uncle Brett is (my) Brett’s best friend).
One big thing I love about this kid (beside his dimples that are so deep they collect lint, and the fact he still loves to cuddle with his mom and shower her with kisses) is that he is so good with Emma. Don’t get me wrong. They have their battles. What siblings don’t? But in general, he’s very sweet and very patient with her. And very willing to help out. Sometimes too willing.
Mason was born 2 months after Emma’s diagnosis. What a trying time! To deal with a child who now has serious medical needs and now a newborn. We were so lucky that he was the easiest baby ever. There is no exaggeration to that statement at all! What’s interesting about our little family, or at least interesting to me, is that Emma is one one side of the spectrum as globally delayed. Mason, on the other hand, is very bright. As in bright enough to be in a gifted program later on. Because why wouldn’t I have two kids who are polar opposites like that? <wink>
One thing that I am struggling with right now is the fact that we don’t have him in any “extra-curricular” activities. No sports. No swim lessons (which is a huge shame). We simply don’t have time right now. How do I fit all of our schedules, including Emma’s schedule which includes multiple doctors appointments, therapies, and gymnastics, and then include an activity for him? I need another me. Or a husband who is independently wealthy and doesn’t have to work so he can coach Mason’s soccer team. I’m sure it will get easier to squeeze in something for Mason…as soon as this whole “school” thang gets sorted out. Until then, we enjoy our time hanging out at home, or doing different activities that include sister. He will get his time to pursue what he wants. Fortunately he can be good at being patient!
*pictures from our recent trip to Indianapolis for a family reunion. It was a Mason and Mommy trip!
Any suggestions for this mom who’s feeling a wee bit guilty?
Thank you for posting about mister Mason. It’s been a while since I’ve heard what he’s up to lately
I started thinking while reading this, are there any of your friends or neighbors who you trust that have their childre in
Thank you for posting about mister Mason. It’s been a while since I’ve heard what he’s up to
I started thinking about something while reading, and I apologize if you’ve already gone down this avenue, but do you have any trusted friends, coworkers, or neighbors who would be willing to take Mason to ball practice or music lessons at the same time their child goes? Even if you or Brett are not able to make every practice, lesson, or game at least he would have some recreational time.
Does Emma’s gymnastics studio have any other classes at the same time or close to it? I know a lot of the places around here have gymnastics and karate around the same time.
These were just a couple thoughts that popped up in my mind. I love hearing how sweet he is to his sister (and momma!) That shows very good personality traits that will help him soar in the future
Sorry about the first post…hit the wrong button *blush*
LOVE hearing about your Mason! (Don’t get me wrong, I love Emma’s stories, too, but what a cute little guy!) I know you feel guilty about not being able to do extracurricular with him, but, remember, he’s only 4. Though extra stuff is fun he really is going to be happy just being a boy. When he’s older you’ll be able to add stuff in, and he won’t miss out. Trust me, I’ve seen 4 year olds play soccer…they could probably wait a year or two more.
Amy, thanks! yes, I need to keep the bigger picture in mind. He’s 4!!
Rebecca, thanks so much for your comment! Unfortunately we’re quite a bit north of our family. So no one really to take him. And I’ve thought about the gymnastics thing, and it’s not out of the picture. But he’s not interested. I need to check out the fall sports at the YMCA 3 miles from our house. Would probably be perfect. Rebecca, thanks again for your thoughts and kind words!
We focused so much on having our oldest in everything. Then our second in a lot of stuff. And by the time number three was old enough to participate, we were killing ourselves making time for it all. This spring, we signed up for nothing. None of them played baseball, a fan favorite around here. And you know what? It was wonderful! We had so much fun not rushing around. Don’t worry to much about not having him signed up for stuff yet. His turn will roll around! He’s an awfully cute little guy!
I appreciate your kind words…thank you! I do not envy the people whose lives revolve around Saturday sports. I will admit!